Men have their own share of insecurities to deal with which makes them less expressive than women. They are not able to handle stress as effectively as women nor can they tackle show of emotions by others.
Under such circumstances receiving regular reassurance of commitment from a man is somewhat difficult. Nevertheless, there are certain signs that will help you to find how seriously he takes the relationship.
His Response To Your Anger
A man in love with a woman will try his best to remain calm and make you calm down. Unless he is clear of what it is that you are upset about he will start thinking if he is at fault.
If it is his fault then he will either remain silent and listen to your outburst or give explanation of his action. He will never do anything to aggravate your anger.
A man in love will never use indecent words to ask you to stop nagging. If you cross your verbal limits to a great extend, he may refrain himself from everyone for a while and maintain silence for a very long time.
He will Never Bring Up Your Past
Even though you are good friends, apart from lover, the guy will try to avoid discussion of how your ex-boyfriend used to be with you. He has absolutely no interest. This is because secretly he may assume that you still have a soft corner for the person in the past.
He may or may not express it to you in order to avoid a scene but this is how men are. They become sensitive and insecure when in a committed relation.
Shares His Private Thoughts
Usually, men are not open about how they feel. If he shares about his friends and family and tells you that he can talk about anything to you remember that he means it. Try not to judge him and appreciate that he is talking to you about his feelings.
Worries When You Don`t Say “I love you”
When a man expresses that you have not said, “I love you”, to him since long simply smile and say it a couple of times. Since women say these 3 magical words very often men hardly have a reason to complaint. Men love to hear it.