First, let me make you aware of the fact that what you are about to read may be contrary to your beliefs. Some painful things will be discussed in this article. Others may be seen as improper. Some may be condemnable. However, the truth is that people are having affairs with married men.
If you are in such a situation, you will understand what is going on. Your friends might have told you what you should expect. Members of your family have seen it and asked you get out of such a relationship. You might have received some professional advice to stop, advice you didn’t listened to. Your heart tells you to go for love.
What then is the best advice for a woman who has an affair with a married man? Here are some things to consider.
It is not about the two of you only
There are a lot of people involved in this. You should think of the emotional pain you are inflicting on his family – his wife and kids. Don’t think that they don’t know so it won’t hurt them. What you are doing will certainly ruin them. Hurting the heart is hurting a life. You will end up destroying many lives
There are a lot of restrictions
There is a limit on where to be with him. You cannot be seen together in public. You don’t get to visit him at the office. He can only see you at his convenience when he is free from family and friends.
There are sacrifices
Though you love him very much and that is the truth for you, you will not receive any praise for that. You will not have him all the time for yourself alone. That one too is clear to you. You will have to bear the pains that come with that choice.
There is a stigma
You will be given a lot of negative titles. That is why you should keep the affair secret. For most people, this could be too much to take.
This article is not meant to judge you. It is just letting you know the situation better so you can deal with it, whatever the choice you make.