Dates are always exciting especially for women. They start dreaming about the guy and plan in their thoughts what will happen and how they will react. Women have a habit of living in their own made up world. Dates can cause anxiety attack even in most confident women. Women have this attitude to think about the wrong things.
Will he like my looks? Am I looking good? Am I looking like the girl in the magazine? Is my dress looking good? Show your date that you are confident and not nervous. Be ready for whatever happens.
Tips on Dating
Be Open Minded
Guys usually like the girls who are open minded. They usually hate over possessive girls. This of course does not mean that you sleep with the guy on the first date but of course let him hold your hands if he shows any signs to do so and you don’t mind doing it. Allow him only if you feel secured, wish to date the guy again and get positive signs from the guy. Be clear about your limits and explain the guy you are dating clearly when he shows any signs of getting intimate. Don’t get intimate just because your date wanted you to do so.
Make A List Of The Qualities You Want In Your Man
It is advisable to make a list of the qualities you want in your man. Be clear about it and even tell about it to the guy you meet and be sure that they want the same in return. This will help you to judge the guy properly according to the list.
A woman knows what she wants. A perfect lady is the one who looks sexy without showing much of her skin. Set clear boundaries and judge the man correctly.
If you feel that he is the man you were looking for then accept it before you lose him. Don’t be afraid to let a man walk away if he is not the one you were looking for. Show the man that you are very confident and don’t give this impression that you are trying very hard to impress the guy.
Enjoying the Date
You should enjoy the date even if the place chosen is not the place you like. It’s your first meet so it is bound to happen. Once you get to know each other your partner might plan things according to your wish. You must prepare your mind to enjoy everything. If your date has planned to take you to the bowling arcade don’t give false excuses of not going there or not willing to do bowling.
If you have to decide about the place for date after you both meet or from before hand choose the place which you both find interesting and fun. Be ready to try out something new.
Don’t be Too Emotional
Don’t be too emotional in front of your date. Don’t discus about your ex boy friend or the way he cheated on you, your alcoholic father or your psychotic boss. The guy you are sitting with is supposed to be your potential lover and not your therapist to handle your emotions or to give you emotional and moral support. Enjoy your date and don’t spoil it by being too emotional and crying in front of your date.
Getting Man’s Attention
One way to get a man’s attention is by asking him a lot of questions rather than talking only about your self. Don’t ask him puzzling questions and make him feel uncomfortable. Stay in tune with current events because your date might wish to have a small talk with you and then find that you have no idea about it.
It might make you feel embarrassed so to avoid this situation get information about current events. Ask the guy you are dating about his likes and dislikes as it will give an impression that you are interested in him.
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Trusting Your Intuition
Women have this power to feel what is going on in a man’s mind. You must trust your intuition. Women can understand a guy’s character and intentions by the way he touches her. Intuition is a gift of universe so always trust it. Keep your eyes open and listen to your inner self before taking any decision.
Maintaining Your Own Identity
You must keep in mind to maintain your own identity or to be the way you are. Don’t change yourself just for the date. Don’t change for the guy you meet. This is not the right decision and not good for both you and your relation. Don’t drop your former life for the guy you meet. Be the way you are and most importantly be honest.
Considering Every Relationship as the Same
Women has this attitude to consider every relationship and its problems same. Don’t think that your friends and your relation are same. Every relation has it own problems. If your friends advice you according to their own experience don’t follow them blindly take your decision on your own after analyzing everything properly.
Don’t Assume Anything
Women have this tendency to take decisions in haste and assume everything on their own. Ask your date about his status and expectations and tell him yours too. Before taking your decision ask him about his feelings. Give the guy a chance to prove himself and don’t judge him just by his appearance.
Don’t be ready to adjust with anyone if you fail to find the right guy. Wait for the right guy because God has surely created someone for you and it’s your duty to wait for him. Don’t insult your date for the wrong things done by him instead show him how competent he is which will show that you support him a lot. Don’t feel stressed if the guy does not call you back. Accept the rejection and get ready for next adventure. No matter how boring your date is try to stick till the end until thing get worse.
Be the lady a gentleman rightfully deserves if you want a gentleman to love you.