Below are five of the best kept secrets to attracting someone of the opposite sex. After employing them, you should see a throng of admirers around you.
Be The Center Of Attention
In applying the rules of spatial psychology, to be the center of attention you should be in the center of the room. Your actions also matter to members of the opposite sex. If you are in a bar or nightclub, the best place to position yourself is at one of the corners of the bar. There you will meet more people; the bartenders also tend to gravitate toward the corners. This leads to more interesting conversations.
Wear Alluring Colors
Wearing the right colors can really help you in achieving your mission.
Reputed Color Consultants all agree that women are more attracted to men wearing shades of blue. Men who habitually wear blue convey a sense of dependability, faithfulness and monogamy. Women on the other hand should wear shades of pink and peach to attract men. It makes them more sociable and gives their skin a healthy glow.
Use Body Language That Draws Others To You
Use your body to send positive signals to those around you. Your body language should let others know that you are approachable. Regardless of whether you are a brave and confident woman or not, you want the man to make the first move and approach you. He will not do so unless you send the right signals. While in conversation, nod and use slight tilts of the head to be an active listener.
Remember that everyone likes to be listened to. Women should adopt a posture that looks approachable, for example by standing with your feet less than six inches apart and with toes pointed inward.
Men who have dominating personalities successfully draw the attention of women. A recommended posture for men is to stand with their feet six to ten inches apart and with their toes pointing outward.
The Power Of A Smile
The single most effective signal of friendship is a smile. It is easy to do and internationally recognized, no matter the nationality or creed of those you interact with.
Tempt With Scent
Cinnamon is believed to be an aphrodisiac by aromatherapy experts and radically amplifies attraction. Studies have shown that men equate the aromas of cinnamon and vanilla to love. Use this to your advantage in attracting them to you. Eat a snack that has cinnamon in it before your date or simply wear a perfume that has cinnamon in it. You can search for such perfumes on the Internet.
For men who want to attract women, research indicates that women are fascinated by the scent of black licorice. So men would do well to apply some before visiting their love interest.