Planning to dump your boyfriend? Well it could be a tough and a depressing job you could ever have to do. Sometimes, break ups end up making the two people mere enemies who do not want to see each other’s face.
If you care for your partner and have a nice break up then here are some tips that can help your break up be a sober one.
Firstly, be sure that you want to do this because once you leave your guy, you may never get to date him again. If you have planned it out just because of a small fight or confusion then take rest and think over it. If there is some confusion then talk it out.
Any difficulty, confusion or stress causing tension must be shared and solved with partner. If you then also feel that break up is the only solution that you can opt for, do it. For that, meet the person and tell him one on one. Do not make a mistake of breaking up over the phone as it could mess up whole things.
Finding a private place where you can sit and talk openly is a good idea so make sure you call your partner at such a place and then smile when you see him.
Some people mistakenly try to be rude so that their partner cannot say anything. But it is a totally incorrect method. Have respect for him and tell him politely that it is just not working for you and this may sadly have to be the end.
After giving this clear hint, tell him the reason and say that the problem is not solvable. You do not have to give exact details as he may try to say I can handle and stuff. But be polite and gentle and say that it is not important.
If you are thinking of putting blame on your guy for this unfortunate happening then do not do so. No one likes to be called as a jerk and that he did no good to your life. Remember that he was the one who took your heart away once. Once you are done, leave quietly and kiss him goodbye.