If you really had loved a girl from the bottom of your heart, then it becomes difficult to forget her. Love is one of the most beautiful things in this life. There are several reasons why a healthy relationship comes to an end. This could be because one of the partners is not loyal or circumstances might not be favorable.
Still, most relationships end because of understanding. This is the most important thing which every relationship must have so that it can be carried over a longer term. Now when you are on the verge of this stage that you have lost her then you must try to get away from that past so that your present and future must be on track, otherwise everything will be ruined. The following steps can be quite useful for a person who is dealing with this condition.
Make yourself believe that it is completely over.
The most vital part is that you accept the fact that the relationship is completely over. If you are done with this part, then you are sure that you will be more concentrated on your present and future. Also avoid hanging around the fact that there is a slight chance she is going to come back. The whole thing seems to be hard but this is life and this is the way you need to lead your life ahead.
Stop contacting her.
Most try to contact their ex through any of mode of communication. You need to avoid contacting her through mobile, landline or chat. This would only lead to making things and your life more complicated or you might hurt yourself. Even a slight communication with her is sure to bring back those gone days.
Bury all the reminders.
There are many things that you might have given each other on different occasions. It is better to bury all of them so you are away from all those things that might remind you of her. It could be watch or teddy given to you or her picture that you might be using as wallpaper on your laptop. These things would not get you off those days and you will not be able to manage your life again.
Keep yourself busy.
Keep yourself busy. This will let you off those memories that will attack once you are sitting idle. But this does not mean that you should start working for days and nights and you are only working without meals and rest. If you are working person then make sure that you are making efforts in your field. Still, if you are not a job holder and doing your studies, then in your free time, add more and more skills. Join a gym or do whatever your hobbies are. Take interest in them and discover new things that you can do.
Contact new girls.
This step comes once you are done with all the above steps and you are sure that you have detached from all her memories. Try to meet new girlfriend and share things that you think are good to do. This does not mean that you should start making the same relationship which you just have left over. Give time to her and your luck.