As time passes, two people in a relationship for a long time, start taking each other for granted. The regular or weekly meetings, outings and prolonged phone calls starts getting boring and the relationship starts to suffer. Both of them want some variety in their life and it is during this time that they try to find the variety by staying away from each other.
The distance often is welcomed but in cases this can turn out to be just the beginning of that end of what was a perfect relationship. As such, ignoring each other is not the solution to this. Rather both the partners should make an effort to renew their relationship. It is better to sit back and think how to make the relationship better than just giving up on it. It will take very little from both of them to make the relationship as strong as before.
For this, it is essential to first think and demolish the reasons for which the distance has cropped up. A little patience, variety and humor and lots of love can again rebuild the suffering relationship. Rather than finding faults with each other, try to remember the things that made you come closer.
One reason for the problems can be your inability to understand each other. To resolve this, start spending more time with each other and try to find your partner in a new light. There might be a different side of your partner that you are completely unaware of. Bring it out and also give him/her the opportunity to know you as well. Share more and complain less to make the relationship work in a fine tune.
Tips To Improve Your Relationship
Don’t Take Each Other For Granted
First stop taking each other for granted. A commitment doesn’t necessarily mean that you will be there in a relationship forever without the love of your partner. Love is equal sharing and can’t survive with only one doing all the compromise.
The Importance Of Giving Space
Respect each other’s independence and personal space. It is always important to give them some time alone to spend with their family and friends.
Adjustment Is The Key
Don’t try to impose each other’s likings and disliking on one another. Rather try to adjust. Also, if needed, make little adjustments and don’t stick to a point. A little understanding does not do any harm but can easily solve a lot of problems.
Never change yourself for the each other’s sake. Accept each other as you are. In this lies the true essence of love.
Supporting Each Other
Take interest in each other’s hobbies and activities. Encourage each other on undertaking a new venture to assure your support in whatever you do.
Look Into The Future
Make future plans together. This will give you an authority over each other.
Be A Good Listener
Inquire about each other’s problems and try to find a solution together. Don’t start a conversation on a negative note. Rather be patient enough to hear what your partner has to say.
Try to understand each other on the emotional level. As individuals your requirements and demands can be different. So try to be compatible and support each other in times of need.
Giving up on a relationship is a painful thing so you have to fight hard for it. A little bit of togetherness will strengthen the relationship beyond imaginations.
Recreate the magic of love in your relationship by spending some priceless moments together. Take clues from some ideas to make the weekend different, memorable and special for both of you.