You may see a woman that you are interested in.  You try to get her attention but she seems to shy away from the advancements.  Talking to shy women is not easy.  They are quite quiet and can be hesitant about saying anything about themselves. 

But there is a way to talk to shy women.  The trick is to get them to open up.  Read on to learn how to talk to shy women.

Shy women are not going to come right up to you and start talking.  Therefore, it is up to you to initiate the conversation.  When you approach her, be gentle.  Do not overwhelm her with your presence and a barrage of questions.  Go slow with her.

Take the time to listen to what she is saying.  If she recognizes that you are paying attention to her, she will feel more comfortable in opening up.

Make sure she is comfortable.  That might mean bringing her to a less crowded area.  She may not feel comfortable talking in front of strangers.  If you are with a group of people, either leave the group or introduce her to some of the people in the group.

Don’t be pushy when talking to her.  If you force her to talk it may make her feel awkward.  Take it easy, don’t overwhelm her with the amount of questions you ask and the type of questions you ask.  Let her suggest a topic and follow her lead.

Do not raise your voice when you speak to a shy woman.  If you are in a loud place, remove yourself from that area and bring her somewhere quiet where you can sit down and speak to her in a soft voice.  When you first approach her, ask her if she would feel comfortable talking to you.  If she answers “yes” follow her lead.

If she declines to talk to you, do not force the situation.  Start your conversation by introducing yourself and telling her a bit about you.  See if she picks up on anything you are saying.  Slowly ask her about herself and see if you can chime in with anything that relates to her interests.