Questions Every Couple Should Ask…But Are Afraid To!
When you are about to take you relationship another step further and make a long run commitment, it is better that you take a bit of time and ask yourself a very important question — are the two of you well-matched? Do you think the both of you can live the rest of your lives together?
It is better that you have all these questions answered before you make a commitment and start your lives together. Your partner’s views might not match with yours. There might be clashes. But can you live with the differences? That is the most important thing to be considered.
Before taking any step consider the points mentioned below.
What are your religious views?
Are you an atheist or a believer?
Do you believe that there is life after death?
How do you handle disputes or arguments?
If you are upset, how would you let your partner know about it?
Do you keep your feelings bottled up, or you like sharing your feelings?
What is your opinion regarding being friends with ex-lover?
Do you think the wife should stay home and take care of the kids?
What do you think about the fathers who stay at home?
Who do you think should be the main earning member of the family?
What are your views regarding women earning more than men?
Do you think it is better that you save all the money?
Are you capable of handling money? Rate yourself.
What happens if your partner has an accident and is disabled? How would you deal with the situation then?
How will you deal with the problem of debts?
What if your partner is out of job for a long time? How would you handle the situation?
What is your expectation from your partner?
Are you aware of your partner’s expectations from you?
What do you think of abortion? Would you ever have one yourself?
Are you fond of children and want to have kinds?
How many kids do you think a couple should have?
Do you think it is ok for the couples to argue in front of their kids?
Asking yourself is not enough. You have to share your views with your partner and then make the move. Ask your partner the same questions and take their views as well.
