You might be afraid of asking a girl for her phone number. You might have seen her in any family meet, party or nearby your house, but still you are not sure how to get much closer to her so you can ask her for her number.

Follow these steps without being numb at that stage:

Firstly, try to be closer to her, making sure that you are not making any vulgar approach to her. Try to make direct contact with that girl along with a handsome smile. Now do not keep staring to her as it makes a bad impression on her or the others standing with her.

The second and the most important step is communication. Don’t start with anything that might not suit the party or the environment. Give her a suitable compliment and then get your introduction thereafter. Don’t make a lecture type scenario for her compliment or your introduction as you are there to impress her and this is your first time.

Keep on interacting. There are signals that will make you sure that she is free to give her number, if you ask for it. These signals could be easily judged if she has direct eye contact with you or she holds a smile while communicating with you. If you don’t find any of such signals, then it would be better to move on rather than insisting her through one or the other way.

If it is your lucky day then move forward and ask for her number. Avoid some foolish quotation like “How about sharing your number” as this sounds flirting. Instead, ask, “How it would be if we know more about each other, do you have any number at which I can call to fix time and place where we can share things better?”

If everything goes as above then you are sure to get her number. Also try giving out your own number, as you should also be comfortable with this. There are men in this wonderland who insist the women to take their number in case she denies giving hers.

Even if you have other more youthful ways for getting a number from girl, you must remember that it is not that too difficult to get a girl’s number if you have the right and elegant ways.