You might be talented and hardworking, charming and sweet, but none of this will help if you are not confident. To be successful in life, you have to have confidence. But that does not mean you have to be cocky. You have to overcome your inner and deal with what comes in life.
Confidence is a key factor when it comes to a relationship. Everyone has their own set fears. So you are not alone in that one. Some are worried about their looks, while some others are unhappy with their weights.
No one is perfect. So do not let this bother you. And next time when you are out in public, in stead of being bothered about your own lickings, try to figure out other people’s insecurities as well. In this way you will learn to judge people more closely and eventually you will be able to find more about them, and not just their insecurities, but even more.
Remember, looks do matter. If you look good, you will feel good. Give yourself a makeover if necessary. Be yourself, and be in your best self. Applying makeup, changing your wardrobe will not make you a wannabe. It certainly will bring some good changes. But at the same time, make sure you do not overdo whatever you do.
Be active, and do something exciting whenever you get the chance. Do not live a monotones life. Go for summer camp, hiking, tracking – there are plenty of choices out there, just pick one. Or, just do something fun and crazy for a change. All of these will add spice to your life. The more experience you gain, the more confident you become. And nothing is useless. Every experience counts. Try to explore your surrounding. This will broaden your horizon. Meet new people and make more friends.
There are times when we are not ready for a situation. That happens with everyone. So again you are not alone in that. Shake off your inner fear and face it. Be a bit offensive if necessary. At first you might feel bit uncomfortable, but later you will be all right. But this does not mean that you should be rude to people. Be assertive, but know your line.