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Getting dumped is a tough call to handle for men. Even though men are often expected to take charge of the wooing game, it should not be assumed that they know it all. So, let us understand what are the basic mistakes that men commit that may lead to getting dumped by a woman.
Taking Control of her Life too soon
Women, in today`s world, are very independent and they like to take their own decisions. A man who tries to participate too early in her decision making is going to make her feel suffocated in the relationship. She would fear losing her individuality and assume that all you want her to do is follow your commands.
If you feel a need to give suggestions then do it tactfully. If she makes an immediate attempt to tell why your idea is not going to work or why she is right, withdraw yourself and convey the message that you were just giving an opinion and it is, by the end of the day, her decision that will matter.
Desperate Factor
It is true that women like to feel special by getting a lot of attention but a man making attempts 24/7 is only going to represent himself as crazy and hence lose her.
A mental tug-of-war is the most appropriate way of keeping someone attracted to you in the initial stages of the relationship. Let her know that even though you are always available for her there is some time that you need for yourself and your friends.
Even if you are head over heels in love with your lady, make sure that you do not scare her with your enthusiasm. Allow her to develop feeling for you in order to have a harmonious relationship.
Invitation to the Sheets
Those men who are quick in asking their new girl friend to shake the sheets get thrown out of the bed and from her life pretty soon. But, as far as this issue is concerned we cannot really be sure if every woman will behave in this way.
Even if you have met someone who is equally excited to explore the physical side of the relationship, avoiding the sheets for some time will definitely help you gain a few extra points in the eyes of your new women.
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